YoMan wrote:
Another thread I saw today sparked this post about getting your partner on board with fat-love. Not about weight gain per se, but it includes elements of it.
When I first met my girlfriend 3 years ago, she definitely didn't like my chub, but didn't say anything right away. After a month or so, she said, "Did you ever think about doing some crunches?"
It was actually tactful, looking back - it wasn't like "I'm not attracted to your body as it is." It was a suggestion and a hint, not meant to hurt feelings.
I did crunches for, what, two days, and that was that.
Long story short, as we got to know each other and fell deeply in love or whatever you wish to call it, she started to love my fat.
I knew a corner had been turned when we were on a plane and I leaned forward to get something and my t-shirt came up in back. I felt a hand on one of my love handles. I stayed bent over while she gently ran her hand over it, squeezed it a few times, gave it a small shake, then gently slid away.
I straightened up, completely turned on. She saw what her touch did to me and from then on, she was all over my fat.
In the car, she would slide a hand into my shirt, find one of my moobs and squeeze, caress, lift and drop it and shake it. If she wanted sex, she knew all she had to do was get in bed with me, grab my stomach with both hands and shake it squeeze it poke it stroke it, and I would be ready in less than 60 seconds. She'd found my hot button and worked it. Wow.
Whereas with my previous partner, I asked her to grab me and she did, but it wasn't with committment or a real understanding of what I was asking her to do, and I ended up saying forget it because A) It didn't work and
It was embarrassing. The woman I talk about above completely understood, and once she got on board, we were just sick into each other. Still are.
At the same time, she got behind her own weight gain - my weight stayed the same, she gained about 30 pounds - and got volcanically turned on when I shook her belly rolls and her own love handles.
I think sometimes people are looking for a fat person or a feeder or feedee, 1,2,3, on line or wherever, and they want to go from zero to stuffing someone and putting 100 pounds on them in 5 minutes. I've been there, too.
But maybe there is someone special out there you can find, and then slowly integrate whatever your fat pleasure is over time, and before you know it you have a partner you really love and who you also can explode with when the time is right.
Another thread I saw today sparked this post about getting your partner on board with fat-love. Not about weight gain per se, but it includes elements of it.
When I first met my girlfriend 3 years ago, she definitely didn't like my chub, but didn't say anything right away. After a month or so, she said, "Did you ever think about doing some crunches?"
It was actually tactful, looking back - it wasn't like "I'm not attracted to your body as it is." It was a suggestion and a hint, not meant to hurt feelings.
I did crunches for, what, two days, and that was that.
Long story short, as we got to know each other and fell deeply in love or whatever you wish to call it, she started to love my fat.
I knew a corner had been turned when we were on a plane and I leaned forward to get something and my t-shirt came up in back. I felt a hand on one of my love handles. I stayed bent over while she gently ran her hand over it, squeezed it a few times, gave it a small shake, then gently slid away.
I straightened up, completely turned on. She saw what her touch did to me and from then on, she was all over my fat.
In the car, she would slide a hand into my shirt, find one of my moobs and squeeze, caress, lift and drop it and shake it. If she wanted sex, she knew all she had to do was get in bed with me, grab my stomach with both hands and shake it squeeze it poke it stroke it, and I would be ready in less than 60 seconds. She'd found my hot button and worked it. Wow.
Whereas with my previous partner, I asked her to grab me and she did, but it wasn't with committment or a real understanding of what I was asking her to do, and I ended up saying forget it because A) It didn't work and
It was embarrassing. The woman I talk about above completely understood, and once she got on board, we were just sick into each other. Still are. At the same time, she got behind her own weight gain - my weight stayed the same, she gained about 30 pounds - and got volcanically turned on when I shook her belly rolls and her own love handles.
I think sometimes people are looking for a fat person or a feeder or feedee, 1,2,3, on line or wherever, and they want to go from zero to stuffing someone and putting 100 pounds on them in 5 minutes. I've been there, too.
But maybe there is someone special out there you can find, and then slowly integrate whatever your fat pleasure is over time, and before you know it you have a partner you really love and who you also can explode with when the time is right.
Oh my that was hot ;_)
yeah maybe even those things exist ^^ would be evenly nice to discover maybe even better like a christmas present ...:_)
10 years
